I've been an introvert all my life. I dislike large groups of strangers, and thrive in one-on-one conversations. This has enabled me to go for "quality, not quantity" in terms of the friends that I have. I have 650+ friends in my friends list, but really only care about 20 of them. This is because with those 20 individuals, I've developed a deeper friendship that revolved around the exchange of ideas - a sharing of life and its share of troubles, triumphs, and inconsistencies.The other 630 people might know me from church, school, or work. I might know them on the surface, but I haven't invested time in getting to know them. I might know how they are through an exchange of statuses, but I don't really know what makes them tick.
This sets up a fundamental problem in a society inundated with social information technology, and a lack of user-based understanding of what it means to be "connected." Internet addiction has been in the limelight for the past 15 years, and is considered a serious disorder. Addiction to social media, as it has matured over the past decade, has been recognized as a cause of loneliness (1). While various factors that go into this addiction including personality and social lives outside of social media, the reality is that there has been a shift in the past decade from an exchange of ideas, to an exchange of statuses. This fundamental shift affects the way we communicate with each other as individuals, which ultimately affects the way we view ourselves and our roles in a technology-enabled society.
For example, I might update my twitter and facebook status daily, but if you take all the accumulated status messages I've ever written which has been read by my hundreds of online "friends" in the past 5 years, the accumulated content of these status messages will tell you very little about who I am as a person. I imagine that any person, however capable they are with working with the 140-character limit, can't be broken down into a series of pithy comments. The artificial connectedness that people feel via social technologies falls short of our social needs because it lacks CONTENT. You might know what I had for dinner, who I had it with, and where I had it - you might even get the gist of the dinner conversation - but you will never actually be there at dinner with me when I discussed the contemporary applications of Tolstoy with an equally geeky friend. We are at an age of communication where people try to speak in perfect pithy phrases.
Leo Tolstoy once remarked that as a person, we must choose between "conscience and life." This is a status-worthy message, but it means very little on its own without elaboration, context, and a basic understanding of philosophy (2). Can we consciously choose to commit to meaningful relationships, while still living out our digital lives? Can we use our current social technologies in a manner that enables and encourages its users to simply talk to one another where there is as much exchange of ideas, as there are memorable, pithy comments? I have to believe that it is possible if we focus on developing social technology to enable meaningful discourse. The exchange of statuses will continue to proliferate - the question is how can we enable social media users to move beyond the frivolous in order to feed on the substantive. This is one of the questions I will explore in my dissertation.
1) http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lisa-haisha/is-your-facebook-addictio_b_533530.html
2) http://www.ebooksread.com/authors-eng/lon-tolstoi/the-complete-works-of-count-tolstoy-volume-24-slo/page-25-the-complete-works-of-count-tolstoy-volume-24-slo.shtml
This sets up a fundamental problem in a society inundated with social information technology, and a lack of user-based understanding of what it means to be "connected." Internet addiction has been in the limelight for the past 15 years, and is considered a serious disorder. Addiction to social media, as it has matured over the past decade, has been recognized as a cause of loneliness (1). While various factors that go into this addiction including personality and social lives outside of social media, the reality is that there has been a shift in the past decade from an exchange of ideas, to an exchange of statuses. This fundamental shift affects the way we communicate with each other as individuals, which ultimately affects the way we view ourselves and our roles in a technology-enabled society.
For example, I might update my twitter and facebook status daily, but if you take all the accumulated status messages I've ever written which has been read by my hundreds of online "friends" in the past 5 years, the accumulated content of these status messages will tell you very little about who I am as a person. I imagine that any person, however capable they are with working with the 140-character limit, can't be broken down into a series of pithy comments. The artificial connectedness that people feel via social technologies falls short of our social needs because it lacks CONTENT. You might know what I had for dinner, who I had it with, and where I had it - you might even get the gist of the dinner conversation - but you will never actually be there at dinner with me when I discussed the contemporary applications of Tolstoy with an equally geeky friend. We are at an age of communication where people try to speak in perfect pithy phrases.
Leo Tolstoy once remarked that as a person, we must choose between "conscience and life." This is a status-worthy message, but it means very little on its own without elaboration, context, and a basic understanding of philosophy (2). Can we consciously choose to commit to meaningful relationships, while still living out our digital lives? Can we use our current social technologies in a manner that enables and encourages its users to simply talk to one another where there is as much exchange of ideas, as there are memorable, pithy comments? I have to believe that it is possible if we focus on developing social technology to enable meaningful discourse. The exchange of statuses will continue to proliferate - the question is how can we enable social media users to move beyond the frivolous in order to feed on the substantive. This is one of the questions I will explore in my dissertation.
1) http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lisa-haisha/is-your-facebook-addictio_b_533530.html
2) http://www.ebooksread.com/authors-eng/lon-tolstoi/the-complete-works-of-count-tolstoy-volume-24-slo/page-25-the-complete-works-of-count-tolstoy-volume-24-slo.shtml